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Oliver Emberton

Personal blog · oliveremberton.com · on HN as oliverembertonstartupscareerphilosophy

Oliver Emberton's personal blog at oliveremberton.com covers startups, career and philosophy. Since 2012, 31 different Hacker News readers have linked it 36 times, most often “How to debug your brain”. No feed was found, so read it on the site itself.

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2012–2026first – last linked?
Links on Hacker News per year · peak 15 in 2014

Too few sampled comments (6) to say how often HN recommends it.?

Why HN links it

HN readers link Oliver Emberton's posts on social skills, productivity, dating and life strategy. Commenters point to them as practical advice and a useful framing of life as a game.

Summarised by Claude from a sample of 6 HN comments that link here. Each comment is marked recommending, critical or neutral (citing without judging); how this works.

Thoughts on AI, life, and building things that matter. By Oliver Emberton, founder-CEO of Silktide.

The author on HN?

oliveremberton · 525 karma · member since 2011

Founder of Silktide, a UK software company http://silktide.com/ I blog on life and improving it here: http://oliveremberton.com/

From their public HN profile, which links to this site.

Most-linked posts?

  1. How to debug your brain
    3 people · 3 mentions · first linked 2014-10-14
  2. Life is a game, this is your strategy guide
    3 people · 3 mentions · first linked 2014-02-05
  3. The problem isn’t that life is unfair – it’s your broken idea of fairness
    3 people · 3 mentions · first linked 2014-11-24
  4. Life is a game. This is your strategy guide
    2 people · 2 mentions · first linked 2021-09-29
  5. To achieve your dreams, say no to alternatives
    2 people · 2 mentions · first linked 2014-10-28
  6. If you’re not pissing someone off, you probably aren’t doing anything important
    2 people · 2 mentions · first linked 2014-03-05

What Hacker News says?

  1. I read some "pick up artist" literature in college: about two thirds of it is misogynistic garbage, but the remainder has some good tips on general platonic social interaction (and a major issue with insecure men is learning to interact with women in a casual platonic way without acting odd and creepy because they are hoping for more). - If you aren't good at speaking in a captivating way, literally write out your b…

    Comment linking /2014/how-to-connect-deeply-with-anyone-in-5-minutes/

    on “Basic Social Skills Guide (2012)”
  2. Submitted Life is a game, this is your strategy guide as a story · 359 points

    HN discussion
  3. h43k3r · 2015-02-14Recommends
    http://oliveremberton.com/2013/you-can-do-anything-if-you-st... One need to read this. Helped me a lot during my 6th semester and I scored an almost perfect gpa that semester. The author is one of the Top Writer on Quora and writes on productivity.

    Comment linking /2013/you-can-do-anything-if-you-stop-trying-to-do-everything/

    on “Ask HN: The “I want to do everything but end up doing nothing” dilemma”
  4. Submitted You should be amazed as a story · 36 points

    HN discussion
  5. galfarragem · 2015-05-09Recommends
    Instead of trivia I would recommend you this link and specially the author's uncommon formula for dating success: http://oliveremberton.com/2014/weve-all-been-raised-by-evil-...

    Comment linking /2014/weve-all-been-raised-by-evil-love-stories/

    on “Ask HN: Where did you meet your significant other?”
  6. Submitted I’m writing a novel, because the Internet told me to as a story · 27 points

    HN discussion
  7. Here is a link not hidden behind an ad-wall http://oliveremberton.com/2014/the-problem-isnt-that-life-is...

    Comment linking /2014/the-problem-isnt-that-life-is-unfair-its-your-broken-idea-of-fairness/

    on “The problem isn't that life is unfair, it's that you don't know the rules (2015)”
  8. Submitted To achieve your dreams, say no to alternatives as a story · 16 points

    HN discussion
  9. https://www.oliveremberton.com Vibe coded in 3.5 hrs (content was older, natch), wrote a block-based, WYSIWYG block based CMS from scratch to power it.

    Comment linking /

    on “Ask HN: Could you share your personal website here?”
  10. Submitted If you want to follow your dreams, you have to say no to all the alternatives as a story · 10 points

    HN discussion
  11. lytefm · 2023-03-05Recommends
    Didn't seem to me at all like "self grandeur", more like "here are some funny examples based on my background". The overall game metaphor is quite nice and useful, also in relation to what the author writes about "fairness" [1]. [1]: https://oliveremberton.com/2014/the-problem-isnt-that-life-i...

    Comment linking /2014/the-problem-isnt-that-life-is-unfair-its-your-broken-idea-of-fairness/

    on “Life is a game, this is your strategy guide (2014)”
  12. Submitted How to debug your brain as a story · 7 points

    HN discussion
  13. What's up with freaking programmers of all the people in the world thinking they're in a position to give far-reaching life like this? Of course my perception is biased because this profession is overrepresented here but these kinds of posts keep popping up from time to time and reading advice on how to live your life from someone who spends all their time in front of a computer screen is so cringe. Even the wikiped…

    Comment linking /2013/how-do-i-figure-out-what-to-do-in-life/

    on “Life is a game, this is your strategy guide (2014)”
  14. Submitted Life is a game. This is your strategy guide as a story · 6 points

    HN discussion
  15. Submitted The problem isn’t that life is unfair – it’s your broken idea of fairness as a story · 6 points

    HN discussion
  16. Submitted How to succeed when you have no special skills as a story · 5 points

    HN discussion
  17. Submitted How to succeed when you have no special skills as a story · 5 points

    HN discussion
  18. Submitted The problem isn’t that life is unfair – it’s your broken idea of fairness as a story · 4 points

    HN discussion
  19. Submitted If you’re not pissing someone off, you probably aren’t doing anything important as a story · 4 points

    HN discussion
  20. Submitted How to debug your brain as a story · 4 points

    HN discussion
  21. Submitted If you're not pissing people off, you probably aren't doing anything important as a story · 4 points

    HN discussion
  22. Submitted Life is a game, this is your strategy guide (2014) as a story · 3 points

    HN discussion
  23. Submitted How to connect deeply with anyone (in 5 minutes) as a story · 3 points

    HN discussion
  24. Submitted Life is a game. This is your strategy guide as a story · 3 points

    HN discussion
  25. Submitted Life is a maze, not a marathon as a story · 3 points

    HN discussion
  26. Submitted The Guide to Becoming an Entrepreneur as a story · 2 points

    HN discussion
  27. Submitted Life is a game. This is your strategy guide as a story · 2 points

    HN discussion
  28. Submitted How to find your passion as a story · 2 points

    HN discussion
  29. Submitted How to become an entrepreneur (2013) as a story · 2 points

    HN discussion
  30. Submitted How I Baited the UK Government to Sue Me for Fun and Profit as a story · 2 points

    HN discussion

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